Hi Jerry,
1. I haven't heard of it happening to other users on my domain, but it's possible they don't know it happened.
2. Yes, I receive lots of email - and probably almost all of it. But I know of 2 instances that I didn't receive messages that I should have.
3. Yes, I have FOPE "allow" rules in place for the domains I get a lot of messages from.
thanks,
rel88